When it comes to tackling picky eating, we want you to repeat the mantra, “Dial up the exposure and dial back the pressure.” This might sound simple in theory, but the reality is that we often do the opposite.
Written by: Jessica Diamond, MPH, RDN
When it comes to tackling picky eating, we want you to repeat the mantra, “Dial up the exposure and dial back the pressure.” This might sound simple in theory, but the reality is that we often do the opposite unintentionally, despite the best intent:
Sound familiar? So often, we stop serving fruits and vegetables (and other “rejected” foods) to our kids because we think, “My kid isn’t going to eat this, so why bother?” As a result, we end up serving only their favorite foods or foods we know they sometimes will eat, and the picky eating cycle continues in spite of our best efforts.
Dial up the exposure.
While we totally understand this impulse, we actually want you to do the opposite. Research shows that the best way to help our kids start to break picky eating habits (or to help prevent them in the first place) is to provide them with consistent, pressure-free exposure to a range of foods.
Studies show that kids need anywhere between 30-100 pressure-free exposures to a new food before they may accept it. When you serve them a previously rejected food only once, they don’t get the opportunities they need to see it, touch it, taste it, and eventually accept it. So, keep the exposure up by serving their favorite foods alongside unaccepted foods or new foods, and then let your child explore how they may.
Dial back the pressure.
While you want to increase exposure, you want to decrease all pressure around the foods your child eats. Pressure can be both positive (“Yay, you ate all of your broccoli!”) or negative (“No more bread until you finish your peas!”), and believe it or not, both will backfire. While you may get your child to eat that certain food in the short-term, this pressure can turn mealtimes into power struggles where your child is eating to please you, rather than their belly. This will mean never-ending negotiations and tantrums during mealtimes, and your child is likely to fixate on the foods that you unconsciously place on a pedestal.
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We know it’s hard to step back and trust our kids, but we promise, this really works. Before you know it, meals will be more pleasant and your child will be more open to unfamiliar foods.
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